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by Noone on 2005 Apr 23 - 12:40 | reply to this comment I agree I agree with this article. I tried BDSM too but not the same way. I had a relationship with BDSM sex. Like untamed cherub and Krosrogue it wasn't for me. Outside of the bedroom we were on the same equal footing so it didn't work for me like Taken In Hand does, it was ok but Taken In Hand is more sexy.
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Apr 25 - 07:24 | reply to this comment In denial I've read the BDSM threads and I reckon you're all in denial. It's like you don't want to acknowledge that you're kinky, you want to pretend like you're straight but in reality Taken In Hand is BDSM and that's plain as day.
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Apr 26 - 07:50 | reply to this comment In denial? I couldn't agree with you more - here's to kinky!
by Louise C on 2005 Apr 26 - 09:04 | reply to this comment Kinky I think many of us have sought sites such as this because we know we're different, we realize we're kinky, we understand it's anything but mainstream to want the type of power exchange we're discussing here. My background includes a number of years of BDSM experience. This isn't the same. Doesn't mean there's a single thing wrong with BDSM, doesn't mean that I have suddenly stopped liking many of the edgy, deliciously wicked elements that attracted me to BDSM in the first place. It simply means that it wasn't the perfect fit. Domestic discipline also fits me imperfectly. The Taken In Hand approach is as flexible and varied as any other form of relationship. Sometimes, I wonder if the intense hostility regarding strictly Taken In Hand relationships stems more from a desire to avoid monogamous, long term, marriage type of unions, rather than from a desire to explain perceived differences.
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